Feeling LONELY in a BUSY world?
If you are suffering from anxiety or depression, it may reinforce your feeling of loneliness.
Many of us struggle with unfertile thoughts of loneliness
That kind of thoughts can end up being so barren as they speak to the greatest fear in our minds and plant negative seeds which cause our egos to tell us stories of how we are broken, unworthy and unloving.
These stories have no happy ending and are just a tale of being a social outcast, and be so for the rest our our lives until we die alone
loneliness is not just about being, or not being with someone
If loneliness is not just about being, or not being with someone, then what is it about?
Sometimes I feel so lone in this world like I don't belong anywhere or with anyone
Typical causes of loneliness
The feeling of loneliness sometimes strikes out of the blue. Other times there is a clear cause. This could be the case, for example, if a close relative or friend passes away.
Bullying
A typical cause of loneliness is that you have been bullied. Bullying leaves deep scars. Maybe you have lost confidence in other people? Maybe you have lost faith in yourself that you are worth anything?
Feeling of being different
Loneliness can also be due to you feeling different. Maybe you’re passionate about xx, but everyone around you is more into yy.
The experience of being an outsider is typically extra tough if you grow up in a small town in the countryside, where you are, for example, the only one who dresses a certain way or is interested in a certain topic.
Low self-esteem
Many with low self-esteem basically doubt whether other people like them. Are they interesting enough to be with? Whether they are smart, funny or beautiful enough to earn the company of others.
The result is in some cases that you involuntarily isolate yourself. Not because you do not want the company of others, but because you never feel good enough..
Bad experiences with toxic friendships
We all know lives change, people change and with that can come separation. You may have also decided that someone you considered a friend really isn’t a friend after all.
This is not uncommon as sometimes people violate our friendship and trust and while we should forgive them for our own peace of mind, we do not have to put up with bad behavior.
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Feeling LONELY in a BUSY world?
If you suspect that you are suffering from depression, it may reinforce your feeling of loneliness and you should therefore seek professional help.
Many of us struggle with unfertile thoughts of loneliness
That kind of thoughts can end up being so barren as they speak to the greatest fear in our minds and plant negative seeds which cause our egos to tell us stories of how we are broken, unworthy and unloving.
loneliness is not just about being, or not being with someone
The shocking truth
about loneliness
Sometimes I feel so lone in this world like I don't belong anywhere or with anyone
Typical causes of loneliness
The feeling of loneliness sometimes strikes out of the blue. Other times there is a clear cause.
This could be the case, for example, if a close relative passes away.
Other reasons could be..
Bullying
A typical cause of loneliness is that you have been bullied. Bullying leaves deep scars. Maybe you have lost confidence in other people? Maybe you have lost faith in yourself that you are worth anything?
Feeling of being different
Loneliness can also be due to you feeling different. Maybe you’re passionate about xx, but everyone around you is more into yy. The experience of being an outsider is typically extra tough if you grow up in a small town in the countryside, where you are, for example, the only one who dresses a certain way or is interested in a certain topic.
Low self-esteem
Many with low self-esteem basically doubt whether other people like them. Are they interesting enough to be with? Whether they are smart, funny or beautiful enough to earn the company of others. The result is in some cases that you involuntarily isolate yourself. Not because you do not want the company of others, but because you never feel good enough..
Bad experiences with friendships
We all know lives change, people change and with that can come separation. You may have also decided that someone you considered a friend really isn’t a friend after all.
This is not uncommon as sometimes people violate our friendship and trust and while we should forgive them for our own peace of mind, we do not have to put up with bad behavior.
